Here is Hjem

In May, the day stretches out as the sunlight lingers until about midnight in Norway. Gone are the days where the sun only shows itself for four or five hours and instead people can be spotted strolling with an ice cream as late as 11 pm. When I first get to Norway during this time of year, I always find myself staying up much later than planned, largely because of the everlasting twilight, but also because I get carried away catching up with family. My days here are packed with hiking, playing soccer, goofing around with cousins, and lots and lots of coffee, cheese, and chocolate. Immediately below is the view from my tante's (aunt's) porch in Bergen. Every evening we would sit outside in our knit sweaters (mine made by her!), sip coffee, and watch the fog roll in. It is here, in this landscape and among my family, I feel a deep sense of koselig and a certainty that this is home.

Bergen, Norway

Bergen, Norway

Hiking into the snow, Balestrand, Norway

Hiking into the snow, Balestrand, Norway

Askim, Norway

Askim, Norway

Ice on Vermundsjøen in Finnskog, Norway

Ice on Vermundsjøen in Finnskog, Norway

Flåm, Norway

Flåm, Norway

Flise, Norway

Flise, Norway

May in Norway also signifies the time for Russ. Russ, meaning red, is a tradition unique to Norway where students who are in their final year of high school spend the last month before they graduate wearing red, blue, green or black jumpsuits or overalls - color indicating their field of study. They go to music festivals, party, and hand out Russ cards to children who feverishly collect them and compare who and how many they have with their friends (these are basically baseball player cards with a funny photo of them as a kid and an often cheeky joke). While it originated with red caps being worn by high school graduates, it has grown into an all-encompassing, month-long experience. It's meant as a time to celebrate completing thirteen years of school, but some of the recently added traditions have come under criticism by older generations and current students themselves. Russ students usually form groups with their friends and pick a name, perhaps design a logo, some commission musicians to write a theme song for the group, and many groups will purchase a car, van or bus to paint and decorate with their group's name and logo. The astronomical amount of money spent on buying and refurbishing buses with sound systems has, in some areas, turned into a sort of arms race to see who can spend the most money, which has driven many students to opt out of purchasing a vehicle or not participate in Russ at all.

Russ are also known for playing pranks (see photo below) and partake in scavenger hunts of their own design with questionable tasks to tick off. While challenges certainly lie ahead with how Russ continues to function, one thing is for sure: I do not envy the students who, after a month of nights spent drinking, sleeping on their school's fields (yes, school is still in session during this time, so they can't be late to class), and driving all over Norway to attend music festivals, have to sit for their exams immediately after their Russ time commences on the 17th of May. Seems like a foolproof plan.

This is evidence that Russ were here. A group of mischevious Russ added dish soap to one of the park's fountains in Olso.

This is evidence that Russ were here. A group of mischevious Russ added dish soap to one of the park's fountains in Olso.

Lygra, Norway

Lygra, Norway

As the only two people who hopped off the ferry in Lygra, we waved off the boat and turned around to face the steep grassy bank that rose just beyond the dock. Fingers crossed the place I had scouted on Google Maps existed, we climbed the hill to reveal a rolling landscape dotted with little white things (soon identified as sheep). The picturesque fields were bathed in a golden light that I've come to associate with Norwegian evenings. As we followed the small dirt path we passed a sign that read, "Lygra sentrum" (Lygra town center). Perhaps this was a joke the locals played on visitors because the sign was firmly planted in the middle of an empty field (or maybe commentary on the fact that sheep, who clearly outnumber humans in Lygra, congretate at this spot regularly)? Soon enough, however, we passed through a gate and walked across the only road running through the town to meet the owner of the guesthouse, Dan. He stood on the porch of one of the handful of houses visible on this stretch of island and greeted us warmly. After setting our things down, we chatted with Dan who we quickly learned also doubles as a local sheep farmer. It was lambing season and Dan explained that he had been sleeping in the sheep shed for nearly two weeks getting up every few hours to check on the ewes, in case any of them had trouble giving birth. As he sat petting his favorite sheep, Dolly, who he had bottle fed as a lamb, he told us he would not be able to forgive himself if a lamb or ewe's life could have been saved if only he had been there. So, as a result, he hangs out 24/7 with the pregnant sheep during lambing season. While I have family in Norway who farm, I was reminded how grueling and labor-intensive livestock farming can be and how it takes a special kind of passion to find joy in the daily grind of this profession. After commenting that Dolly was better than any lawnmower he could've ever purchased, he said goodnight and walked back to the shed, Dolly trotting after him.

Welcoming committee in Lygra, Norway

Welcoming committee in Lygra, Norway

New friends in Lygra, Norway

New friends in Lygra, Norway

Ferry on Sognefjord, Norway

Ferry on Sognefjord, Norway

Coffee at 11p, Balestrand, Norway

Coffee at 11p, Balestrand, Norway

Bergen, Norway

Bergen, Norway

Learning from Experience, not AUS-mosis

I've often tried to recall the moment or series of moments where I became more aware of my positionality and when I gained a sense of agency with regard to my role in larger social issues. My years at a four week overnight summer camp taught me independence, how to live and work with people who think differently than myself, and to never assume I have the correct or complete answer. All this laid the foundation for my more "profound" realizations (I'm only in my mid-twenties and realize I have a long way to go). Despite my fuzzy recollections of specific moments on my way to being more reflexive, I do know that most of them have come through traveling.

From my first trips with family and then graduating to solo travel, I’ve found the development of self-awareness is key to learning about the people and places around me. I've also found that a heuristic approach allowed me to learn from mistakes and sharpen what I've now come to think of as my intuitive judgment. It is particularly important for me to remember this when I am leading immersion leadership travel programs over the past four summers. Along with a co-leader and host partner, we facilitate a group of fifteen fifteen year olds. For those of you who have traveled with teens, or were once a teen and can to be real with yourself, exploring travel and what leadership looks like with this age group has its ups and downs. Many are adept at navigating airports, most greet new experiences with enthusiasm and, in the programs that I lead, they are motivated to improve their leadership skills. While cultivating and improving these skills are key aspects of the program, there's the overarching goal of cultivating social responsibility. The core of participants' understanding and practicing social responsibility comes through developing a heightened sense of awareness and then transferring the skills gained and experiences back to their everyday life.

Social responsibility is a heady concept with varying definitions. I found that boiling it down to: a heightened awareness of yourself, how your actions impact others (both positively and negatively), and your ability to work with others through active listening, asking questions, and taking measured action is palatable to most teenagers. Practicing this, however, takes time. I have to remember that I wasn't a fully formed human at fifteen and despite the intense five week leadership program, developing the key components of social responsibility, if following the heuristic approach, is a process. Giving kids the space to evolve allows them ownership over their skill sets and, often times, I learn from them in the process. Here are a few shots from the recent program I co-lead to Australia. The first set of photos are from the Sydney area - nearby mountains, famous architectural landmarks and relaxing city dwellers – and the last few are from the Broken Hill area – ghost towns left from the mining boom, an introduction to Australian first nation peoples, and red dirt that gets everywhere

Blue Mountains, Katoomba, NSW, Australia

Blue Mountains, Katoomba, NSW, Australia

Manly Beach, Sydney, NSW, Australia

Manly Beach, Sydney, NSW, Australia

Sydney, NSW, Australia

Sydney, NSW, Australia

Sydney, NSW, Australia

Sydney, NSW, Australia

Silverton, NSW, Australia

Silverton, NSW, Australia

Silverton, NSW, Australia

Silverton, NSW, Australia

Silverton, NSW, Australia

Silverton, NSW, Australia

Broken Hill, NSW, Australia

Broken Hill, NSW, Australia

Calga, NSW, Australia

Calga, NSW, Australia

I've Been to the Land Down Under

Two and a half weeks, five people in a five person car, all of our camping gear and the west coast of New Zealand's South Island to explore. We experienced the beautiful contrasts between the cultivated and wild landscapes, felt dwarfed by the mountains and calmed by crashing waves that lulled us to sleep. We kayaked in the Tasman sea, hiked up mountains, drove (a lot), swam in blue pools, and jumped from bridges (bungees attached...sometimes). We are now left with indescribable moments of awe at what nature has to offer and a hunger to come back and continue exploring. This is an incredibly abbreviated version of our trip and it will take me a while to cull through my memories to choose one to recount here. In the meantime, enjoy these images.

Ferry from Wellington, New Zealand

Ferry from Wellington, New Zealand

Sunset in Nelson, New Zealand

Sunset in Nelson, New Zealand

Sunrise on Te Pukatea, Abel Tasman National Park, New Zealand

Sunrise on Te Pukatea, Abel Tasman National Park, New Zealand

Sunset on Onetahuti, Abel Tasman National Park , New Zealand

Sunset on Onetahuti, Abel Tasman National Park , New Zealand

Catching a water taxi in Awaroa Bay, Abel Tasman National Park, New Zealand

Catching a water taxi in Awaroa Bay, Abel Tasman National Park, New Zealand

Greymouth, New Zealand

Greymouth, New Zealand

Car trouble in Hari Hari, New Zealand (our car is not pictured).

Car trouble in Hari Hari, New Zealand (our car is not pictured).

Franz Josef Glacier, New Zealand

Franz Josef Glacier, New Zealand

Gillespies Beach Campground, Fox Glacier, New Zealand

Gillespies Beach Campground, Fox Glacier, New Zealand

Reflection of Mt. Cook at Lake Matheson, Fox Glacier, New Zealand

Reflection of Mt. Cook at Lake Matheson, Fox Glacier, New Zealand

Summit of Roys Peak, Wanaka, New Zealand

Summit of Roys Peak, Wanaka, New Zealand

Our trusty car entering Fiordland, New Zealand

Our trusty car entering Fiordland, New Zealand

Sunrise at Cascade Creek Campground, Fiordland, New Zealand

Sunrise at Cascade Creek Campground, Fiordland, New Zealand

Milford Sound, Fiordland National Park, New Zealand

Milford Sound, Fiordland National Park, New Zealand

Setting up camp near Queenstown, New Zealand

Setting up camp near Queenstown, New Zealand

(Somewhat successful shot) near Queenstown, New Zealand

(Somewhat successful shot) near Queenstown, New Zealand

As I Predicted

Well, I've done what I thought I would do. Namely, I've chosen to be with friends and conveniently "forgotten" to sit down and write. I struggle with the balance of remaining present while seeking alone time to write and process, as I feel memories are constantly being created and, due to the limited I have with the incredible family I've found here, it's hard to convince myself to sit on my own. This is an entirely new feeling for me. I am someone who is very comfortable spending time by myself and, up until recently, I felt that I needed that time to recharge. But something wonderful has happened in that the people I'm surrounded by fill me a sense of ease where I can at once be with them while also regaining energy. It occurs to me daily how fearcly kind, confident, humble and hilarious the people I live with are and for that I am forever grateful.

Lake Taupo, Taupo, New Zealand

Lake Taupo, Taupo, New Zealand

Waiotapu Thermal Wonderland, Waiotapu, New Zealand

Waiotapu Thermal Wonderland, Waiotapu, New Zealand

Waiotapu Thermal Wonderland, Waiotapu, New Zealand

Waiotapu Thermal Wonderland, Waiotapu, New Zealand

Meeting the Fam

I was met in Vietnam by the most friendly face. A little over a year ago I led a youth travel trip to Vietnam and worked with Yen, who is arguably one of the loveliest human beings ever. On this visit, Yen brought me back to her home town, Bien Hoa, to meet her family. Unsurprisingly, her family was warm and welcoming, despite the language barrier. That evening, I went to dinner with Yen, her twin sister, and several of their friends, stopped by a coffee shop to hear some live music (Yen had the group sing some Adele songs #hello) and hung out with her cat and kittens. The next morning we got up bright and early to play badminton and eat some pho (sidebar: I have been here for a week and have eaten pho 9 times #noregrets). Later we had lunch with her family, which was a huge treat as her family is incredibly busy getting ready for her brother's wedding that's two weeks away, before heading to the airport to go to Phu Quoc!

Yen's family outside their home, Bien Hoa, Vietnam

Yen's family outside their home, Bien Hoa, Vietnam

Yen, Phu Quoc, Vietnam

Yen, Phu Quoc, Vietnam

Phu Quoc, Vietnam

Phu Quoc, Vietnam

10 Reasons Why Airplane Travel is Sometimes Better with a Friend

Somewhere near the North Pole, Flight from Chicago, Illinois, USA to Shanghai, China

Somewhere near the North PoleFlight from Chicago, Illinois, USA to Shanghai, China

While I do not mind traveling on my own, in fact I think traveling by myself was and continues to be a valuable experience, there are moments where I would like to turn to a nearby friend to discuss what I'm seeing (potentiallly meaningful conversation) or just chat with (most likely not very meaningful, often involving my low level theories regarding the actual existence of a wizarding world or crushing on Cara Delevingne's eyebrows). But here are 10 reasons why it's sometimes more fun to travel with a friend.

  1. Someone to get excited about a trip with - it's lovely when people are excited for you, but there's usually an underlying hint of resentment.
  2. You don't feel guilty making them wake up/get up if you need to use the bathroom (holding it until breaking point probably takes years off your life, idk).
  3. A shoulder or lap to sleep (maybe drool) on.
  4. Someone to discuss the airplane food with (and depending on how tired/cranky you are, could lead to mind blowing food critic level reviews (BECOME THE DUCHESSES/DUKES OF AIRLINE FOOD REVIEWS!))
  5. Someone to bounce your million dollar ideas off of (you'll probably be making money by the time you step off the plane).
  6. Someone to help rank the flight attendants based on their announcements (plus other categories - everyone can be a winner).
  7. Theorize what major pop culture shift has occurred since you've been in the air (speculate wildly).
  8. Someone to watch a movie with (or someone who agrees to watch a movie 5 minutes ahead of you so you know when stressful moments are going to happen) and pretend like you're both in the tiniest living room watching a flick (snuggling is encouraged).
  9. Another brain to piece together where to go once you get off the flight (this is particularly salient if you've been traveling for 10+hours).
  10. Not being so bored that you make a list of why airplane travel is more fun with a buddy. I HAVE 9 HOURS OF THIS FLIGHT LEFT!